Why Elon Musk's ex-girlfriend Grimes says he is 'not the man she fell in love with'

Claire

Grimes

Boucher, widely known as Grimes, has spoken candidly about her evolving relationship with Elon Musk, the CEO of

Tesla and SpaceX

, with whom she shares three children. In a heartfelt post on X (formerly Twitter), the Canadian artist revealed how Musk's

political transformation

and personal decisions have profoundly impacted their bond, leading her to describe him as "no longer the man I fell in love with."

Grimes Reflects on Their Separation

Grimes shared her struggle in detaching from Musk, whom she once described as the love of her life.

She highlighted how his shift towards conservative political ideologies, including his contentious relationship with his

transgender daughter

, Vivian Jenna Wilson, has made him seem "unrecognizable" to her. The artist has been vocal in her support for Vivian, contrasting with Musk’s alleged actions that she finds difficult to reconcile with the person she once knew.

Political Shifts and Strained Ties

Musk's increasing alignment with right-wing politics, including his support for Donald Trump’s presidential campaign, appears to have widened the gap between him and Grimes. While she has remained apolitical in public, the ideological differences seem to have strained their personal connection.

Private Struggles Behind Public Headlines

In her post, Grimes hinted at significant challenges beyond their political differences. She alluded to feeling distanced from Musk’s intellectual and financial resources during their separation. She also mentioned the pain of being separated from one of their children for five months amid legal disputes. These revelations underscore the emotional toll their relationship has taken, though Grimes emphasized that some details remain private.

Grimes Channels Pain Into Art

Despite the turmoil, Grimes expressed how her personal challenges have inspired her creativity. She revealed that her upcoming artistic projects, while potentially provocative, are deeply rooted in her experiences. Grimes hopes her work will resonate with those who can relate to the complexities of love, change, and resilience.